Working mothers

Let's talk about working mothers a bit. These mothers, like other mothers, they love their babies. But normally, they are always torn between which choice to make. They have been in class, done a lot of reading and they are dreaming of climbing corporate ladders like men.

And now, working for mothers has become something fashionable and trendy; as the days of being a house wife are a being out styled. Yet, it is easy to think that in the present woman emancipation, any work from home mum is making women little progressive while men keep enjoying the bigger chunk. 

Women just like you, obviously have so many reasons that would prompt them to become working mothers. But women who have to work because of choice find it guilty than those that work for economic constraints. 

Then, should chasing a career path deprive you of the motherly responsibilities? Is that attaining full success?  What is most important; your child or the job? You have to make a choice or strike a well balanced solution such that you do not regret when it is too late. 

However, women love both worlds; working and mothering.

But research has shown that it is difficult if not almost impossible to have the success of both of them at the same time.

Then one wonders, why not work from home? It would be so good if mothers thought of an option to be work at home mums at least for some time. Since with the present competitive economy, many people are recognizing with increased technology, that it’s no longer where you work from, but rather, what you contribute to the growing society.  Just think about it!

What about personal leadership?

It is one big secret of happy successful people. A must tool for all effective people. They do all it takes to have a live of happiness and victory. They lead their lives on the principle that, 'Leadership is about doing the right thing.'

They struggle to know and understand their life purpose and the boundaries of their lives. Every day, they live a life of perfecting their responsibilities as leaders, mangers, fathers,sons, spouses, daughters, citizens and even friends. For they are aware that they are not where they are for the sake of it but only because they have a purpose to fulfill where ever they are.

Personal leadership says that you have to make the right decisions for your life before the right way. It does not matter most how quick and easy you climb the ladder of success but it is about if you are climbing the right ladder. 

Personal leadership is not about what quality of law school you attend if you are not even sure of your purpose as a person. Soon or later, to discover that indeed what you have always loved to do in life was agriculture. Personal leadership is about clarifying your long time life VALUES and make a decision based solely on them.

When the start is not easy ...

Ever been in a situation when you want to start on something new? Those days where you have postponed to tomorrow, the next day and now you are counting months of your delay? Ifyou have not, you are yet to. 

Starting, just like other dos in life, is not something of a joke. When you decide to start on that course, habit, business, family and even change of wardrobe, there will always be reasons trying to stop you. Issues like lack of skill, money, current job, kids may seem to break into your way telling you that you cannot go on. But are they always the only things.  Aren’t you using them as excuses to justify your real fear of failing to start? They always say, one step at a time; do something small for the start in the direction of what you want and believe. 

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